How the Universe Conspired to Make Me Watch Football

The  universe works in mysterious ways.  When my husband insisted on dragging me to a Super Bowl party (I have tried repeatedly to love football, but I just can’t bring myself to do it), I could not have guessed that the universe was at work, conspiring to align my orbit with Bill and Lenen’s wedding path.

As I’m sure happens at Super Bowl parties all over the country, the men gravitated to the room with a TV the size of a garage door while the women sought refuge in a neighboring room to chat about “girl stuff” – like weddings – my favorite topic.  The topic of weddings came up when  Lenen, whom I had just met minutes before, asked what I did for a living.  After gushing that I photograph weddings and am more addicted to them than I am to caffeine and sugar, she replied that she was currently in the throes of wedding planning.  Being a crazy-busy, globe-trotting, time-is-precious kind of gal, Lenen booked her wedding vendors though one of those one-stop-shopping-type companies that offer photographers, DJs, videographers, and flowers. 

I asked if she had a chance to meet with the photographer that would be shooting her wedding, and scoring points for that company, Lenen replied that she had.  Her and Bill had their engagement session, were happy with the images, and thought it was a good personality match.  I said that was excellent news because a good match between the photographer and the bridal couple can make all the difference on the day of the wedding, because the photographer is typically the only vendor that is with the couple all day long.   If it’s not a good match, things can get . . .um. . .icky.

During this conversation, a mutual friend arrived with her adorable toddler in tow, and the subject quickly switched to how cute, charming, and crafty he was (he somehow managed to get his little Oliver Twist hands on my husband’s wallet).  Soon after, I took my leave early to go home and spend time with my second husband, Adobe Photoshop.

The next day, I had a voicemail from Lenen. It began with “Gina, I don’t know if I’m laughing or crying over finding your website! Oh my gosh!” 

Two days later, Lenen and Bill cancelled their contract with the one-stop-shop and booked with me. 

As I’m fond of saying, the universe unfolds as it should.  I could not have asked for a more fantastic couple than Lenen and Bill or a better location to work with on a day with nearly constant rain.  Because of the rain, we arrived extra-early to make an indoor game plan, and Patrick, the event Manager at the Mill City Museum, took my team on a top-to-bottom tour of all the amazing indoor locations that the Mill has to offer.  I nearly started drooling when he showed us the super-secret, roped-off, staff-only grain room.  The light in that room was absolutely delicious.  I wanted to capture it in a jar and eat it with a spoon, it was so yummy.

And Lenen and Bill were a photographer’s dream.  They were up for anything – which I adore in a wedding couple.  And they were full of energy, joy, generosity, affection, sincerity, humor and love - all of which I adore oodles and oodles.  And look at them – they’re gorgeous!  You can see from the images below why I’m over the moon about this wedding and why I’ve never been so happy to have been talked into going to a Super Bowl party.  Thank you, sweet-talking husband.  Thank you, sneaky universe.  And most of all, thank you, fabulous Lenen & Bill.


Always, Above Anything Else

Patience is a virtue that I’m still working on – especially when it comes time for the wedding season to start in Minnesota.  But the season is finally here, and it couldn’t have started out any better than with Ronda and Jason’s Majestic Oaks wedding in Ham Lake.

Ronda and Jason really went the extra mile in personalizing their day.  Jason surprised his bride with a slide show during the ceremony, including images from his proposal!  He also played the guitar and sang to her amidst an array of misty eyes – mine included. 

The reception tables were personalized with custom-made plaques that doubled as party favors.  The plaques echoed the emotion of the day with beautifully simple sentiments like love, faith, trust and hope. 

And the cake!  Let me tell you about the cake!  Sitting atop a glorious mountain of sugar, butter and deliciousness sat the spitting image of the bride and groom!  Even the dress was the same!  Hands down, it’s top of my toppers list.

Rather than a traditional guest book, a wedding wishes tree greeted guests as they entered the room.  My personal favorite: always above anything else – love.   Oh so schmoopy, and gooey, and perfectly fitting for a couple as head over heals for each other as Ronda and Jason.

And that’s what’s most important about any wedding day.  Yes, I adore a gorgeous dress, mouth-watering cake, and fabulous shoes, but it’s the schmoopy, gooey stuff that keeps me hooked.  It’s the way Jason looked at Ronda when she didn’t know he was watching.  It’s the way they both cried during the ceremony.  It’s the way they held hands during prayer.  It’s the way their first dance melted into an embrace.  It’s always, above anything else, the love that matters.


Junebug Weddings Just Added Me to Their “World’s Best Photographers Hot List”

I must have been really, really good in a past life, because this year just keeps getting better – and it’s only the first of April. 

Last week I was accepted to Junebug Weddings’ “World’s Best Photographers Hot List” and today my listing went live!  I’m one of only three photographers on the list from Minnesota.

I’m so giddy, I could implode . . . or explode – I’m too excited to decide.

The reason I’m so pumped is that I share the list with AM-A-Z-ZING photographers like Jerry Ghionis, Yervant, Jeff and Julia Woods, and Bob and Dawn Davis.  I’ve sat listening with rapt attention to all of these photographers speak at seminars, and now to be included on the same list makes me feel like singing . . . or doing the happy dance – I’m too excited to decide.

 World's Best Wedding Photographers


This article on wedding photography is so good, I couldn’t have said it better myself.

If I told you how important it is to hire a full-time, professional, wedding photographer for your big day, you might take it with a grain of salt, because I’m more than a little biased on the subject.  However, this article by a venue owner in Tennesse says it better than I could. 

Why You Should NEVER Skimp on Wedding Photography” by Shannon O’Kelley of Southall Eden.


After Dark: This Minneapolis Wedding Photographer is Taking Things Up a Notch

I’m sure I’ve mentioned before that I have a bit of an addiction to photography seminars.  I love them.  I can’t get enough.  I set aside time and money every year to go to national and local events, so I can always make sure that I’m at the top of my game – and that I keep redefining what the “top” means to me. 

I want to see and hear about what’s new – new equipment, new trends, new techniques.  I want to be able to shoot with photographers whose work I love and whose skills I admire.  I want to stand next to another photographer, look at the same subject, and photograph it in a completely different way.  I want to get that rush of looking at the back of my camera and seeing an image that I couldn’t have possibly imaged the day before.

Attending After Dark in Las Vegas gave me all those things and more.  I was able to shoot with TriCoast, John Michael Cooper, Jordan Chan, Dan Davis, Mark Fitzgibbons, Neil Van Niekerk, Stephanie Zetl, Jen Hillenga and Martin Grahame-Dunn — all amazing, internationally renown artists and fantastic human beings.  No ego. No bluster.  Just talent.  I was in photographer heaven.